⚖️ 2. Why "Work Life Balance" Will Ruin Your Life - Article by Dan Koe
Nobody actually wants "work-life balance."
(You'll notice a theme in the stories this week).
In this article, Dan argues that:
- Being extreme creates a zestful life.
- Work-life balance is for those who don't like their work.
I tend to agree with both points.
As I've talked about in WLW before, I love this quote from chess champion Josh Waitzkin:
"There’s the undulation, most people in high-stress, decision-making industries are always operating at this kind of simmering six, or four, as opposed to the undulation between just deep relaxation and being at a 10. Being at a 10 is millions of times better than being at a 6. It’s just in a different universe. Same as being all-in on a discipline is millions of times more intense than being 98 percent or 99 percent."
Living at a "simmering 6" feels terrible.
It feels like the modern world is designed to make you feel this way: tired, and wired.
To Dan's second point, I've spoken at length on Instagram about the concept of "Work-Life Alignment:"
Most people are living double lives: Work over here. Life over there.
Work Life Alignment is about finding harmony and balance. It’s about bringing your true self to everything that you do.
When you are in Alignment, your work fuels your life, and your life fuels your work. Everything is useful.
It’s not that your work is your life, or your life is your work. Your life is your life. There is no work.
Read the full article from Dan here.